I understand all too well.

At the company Christmas party last year, they did a present swap thing (clearly I did not participate). One girl got a box of hot sauces…

I understand all too well. I’ve learned to use my “inside voice” when I wanna crack a “dark” joke. I so fear hurting/offending someone.

At the company Christmas party last year, they did a present swap thing (clearly I did not participate). One girl got a box of hot sauces and without any irony, at all, she said: “Anyone wanna try my hot sauce?” She was …